Learning from the ripples.


Have you ever found yourself thinking something like, “If only Robin Wall Kimmerer would read the first draft of my manuscript and give me feedback — then I would be a better writer.”

An in-person mentor who gives you one-on-one attention is wonderful. Having a writer pay close attention to you and your work can be an extraordinary experience. I can only imagine what it would be like to get Robin Wall Kimmerer’s revision notes. But it’s not the only way to learn how to be a good writer.

So much of your growth as a writer depends on you paying close attention to what you are reading, and letting yourself be influenced by it, on purpose.

In other words, if you really want to learn what Robin Wall Kimmerer would think of your manuscript, read Robin Wall Kimmerer.

You have a lot of wisdom inside you already. Some of it might be observable now; some of it might still be dormant. Being an open and willing student of your influences will help you recognize more of your own wisdom.

Reading is like dropping a stone in a body of water. There’s a splash, and then the water moves accordingly. To learn from what you read, pay attention to the shape and structure of the ripples that form as a result of the splash.

Pick an author you admire. Read their writing over and over again. Do your research: read about how this person writes. Study what they do. Read their interviews. Read their novels, essays, articles, editorials, and writing contest introductions. Copy passages of their work in your own notebook, in your own handwriting, to see how it feels to step into their syntax and language. Read their book recommendations, read their influences.

How you react to what you read teaches you who you are as a writer. Follow the clues of your own admiration and awe. Even shadow emotions, like sadness, jealousy, and repulsion, are your teachers.

Your admiration teaches you what your strengths are.

If an author you deeply admire is still alive, write them a thank you card. Articulate what you love about their writing concisely and truthfully. Mail it to their publisher — it will get to them eventually.

But before you mail it, leave a note for yourself somewhere, so you remember what you wrote in the card. Think about what you love, and let that in.

Your sadness teaches you what you want to keep alive in your work.

If it saddens you that an author is no longer alive and writing anything new, pay attention. Let it break your heart, and keep reading. By opening yourself up to their influence and reading while feeling vulnerable, you are letting in what you need to know in order to continue their lineage.

Your jealousy teaches you how to write what you want to read.

If it makes you jealous to read a particular author’s work, pay attention. Jealousy is an amazing teacher: it’s telling you something about what you want for your own writing.

Your repulsion teaches you something about what you want to strengthen in your own work.

If you find yourself feeling overly critical of an author’s work — in other words, if you dislike it so much that strong feelings are evoked — pay attention to that, too. What is it that you’re seeing in the work you dislike? What is it about the writing that is upsetting you?

If you don’t have an in-person writing mentor yet, don’t let that get in the way of your study and practice. Don’t wait for a mentor to come into your life before you apprentice yourself to the influence of the outstanding teachers lining your library’s bookshelves.

All books contain magic — to access it, you just have to pay attention to what comes up for you as you read.

With love,

Sarah Selecky  

Photo credit: Linus Nylund on Unsplash.

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